It is painful enough for your love to be not reciprocated worst being lied to. That cuts like a knife for sure although I haven't personally experienced being cheated on.
But I'm still having a hard time understanding why some women can't walk away when all the signs have been right under their nose from the very start. If your partner is a pathological liar why would you keep coming back?
Respect is as important to faith and love in a relationship. If you can sense that the man you are having conversation with doesn't have an ounce of respect to you then I suggest you look somewhere else. That relationship is doomed and it will only be a matter of time till you suffocate each other with the doubts that you have at the back of your head.
Second, if being disrespectful to you is not enough would you not walk away while you can if the guy has a terrible temper and starts yelling and screaming when the mood suits him? The kind who lash at you when he is mad and blame you after for every foolish thing he did while at the peak of his emotion? Whoa. That sounds like a big trouble to me.
True it's human nature to be mad. It is a natural emotion that one feels when provoke but it is very immature to blame your partner afterwards. It is your emotion, own it and as such, also own the consequences that comes after.
Women should look for this signs early on in the relationship. Don't wish for the guy to change for you. It may happen but that is a long shot and better yet, don't count on it. Put your energy somewhere else rather than cultivating feelings for someone who will make you feel bad about yourself. Who is an emotional vampire. It is seriously not worth your precious time.
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